{"id":929,"date":"2025-02-24T12:22:45","date_gmt":"2025-02-24T13:22:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.pilotshopworld.com\/?p=929"},"modified":"2025-02-26T18:37:53","modified_gmt":"2025-02-26T18:37:53","slug":"lily-allen-reveals-her-red-flag-behaviour-after-split-from-david-harbour","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.pilotshopworld.com\/index.php\/2025\/02\/24\/lily-allen-reveals-her-red-flag-behaviour-after-split-from-david-harbour\/","title":{"rendered":"Lily Allen reveals her \u2018red flag behaviour\u2019 after split from David Harbour"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Lily Allen has opened up about her ‘red flags’ (Picture: Alan Chapman\/Dave Benett\/Getty Images)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Lily Allen<\/a> has revealed her own ‘red flag behaviours’ in a relationship.<\/p>\n

The 39-year-old singer, who split from estranged husband David Harbour<\/a> after he was caught on celebrity dating app Raya<\/a>, opened up on her past romances and recalled how first partner Lester Lloyd sparked a pattern.<\/p>\n

‘I think I was a tactile kid but as soon as I got my first boyfriend Lester [Lloyd], a complete transference of intimacy,’ she said on her own Miss Me?<\/a> podcast<\/a> with co-host Miquita Oliver.<\/p>\n

‘Not only did I not want to touch, be cuddled or kissed by any one in my family, I couldn’t engage in it with them either.<\/p>\n

‘It was like, “No, this person is where I put that now”. It’s incredibly red flag, co dependent behaviour. I just put all my emotional dependency on one person.’<\/p>\n

Lily also gave her candid thoughts on kissing, admitting despite loving to lock lips, she finds the whole thing ‘quite perverse’.<\/p>\n

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She also revealed why she thinks kissing is ‘quite perverse’ (Picture: John Nacion\/WWD via Getty Images)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

‘Personally I love being kissed, I think it is a wonderful thing. I will say I think its quite perverse,’ she quipped.<\/p>\n

‘When two heterosexual people come together physically – and in animal kingdom they don’t kiss, it’s just to impregnate the other person.<\/p>\n

‘It is quite an odd thing that we have come up with to express. It does feel great though, I mean I love being kissed, I love kissing people.’<\/p>\n

Her comments come after reports last week that Lily’s ex David, who she married in 2020, has moved on with a new girlfriend<\/a>.<\/p>\n

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Lily has split from husband David Harbour (Picture: Shane Anthony Sinclair\/Getty Images)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n
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The Stranger Things star was reportedly on the Raya dating app (Picture: NBC\/Noam Galai\/NBC via Getty Images)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

According to MailOnline, the 49-year-old star is dating Ellie Fallon, an aspiring model and actress 22 years younger than him.<\/p>\n

The actor is thought to have known Ellie, who has just turned 27, for several months, having seemingly met in Atlanta where he was living during Stranger Things<\/a> filming.<\/p>\n

Apparently, the couple recently went on a trip to India together around New Years.<\/p>\n

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Fallon and Harbour reportedly met in Atlanta (Picture: Intagram)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n
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Lily went to a ‘treatment centre’ to help process the fallout from her split (Picture: Matt Winkelmeyer\/MG22\/Getty Images for The Met Museum\/Vogue)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Lily, who has daughters Ethel, 12, and Marnie, 11, with her first husband Sam Cooper, recently returned to her podcast after taking a break and heading to a trauma clinic <\/a>to help process her split from David.<\/p>\n

‘I went into a treatment centre for a few weeks, which was great,’ she told Miquita when she returned earlier this month. ‘I did lots of group therapy and some like individual therapy.<\/p>\n

‘I needed some time and space away from everything. And I did a lot of shadow work \u2013 lots of work about my inner child stuff.<\/p>\n

\u2018It wasn\u2019t easy by any stretch. And it\u2019s a journey, it\u2019s a life long journey of healing. It\u2019s not a quick fix.\u2019<\/p>\n

Got a story?<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve got a celebrity story, video or pictures get in touch with the Metro.co.uk<\/a> entertainment team by emailing us celebtips@metro.co.uk, calling 020 3615 2145 or by visiting our Submit Stuff<\/a> page – we\u2019d love to hear from you.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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